10. Women love men who are optimistic about life. Lets face it, nobody loves to spend time with haters. We can all be cynical from time to time or we just had a bad day, but constantly hating and complaining about everything is unbearable. And its not sexy at all! Women want someone who will make them happy, and they most definitely dont want to feel miserable because of a man. So our suggestion is to start being optimistic ASAP.