7. Women love ambitious men. Of course, you dont have to be Patrick Bateman (please dont be Patrick Bateman) to impress a girl. Ambition is sexy because it shows strength. It also shows that you are able to deal with problems. Generally, men who are more successful feel better about themselves, which also has a great influence on their charm. If a man is unhappy with himself, he will not be able to hide it too long and being miserable is a big, fat no-no.