4. Women need to be respected! Generally, women need to be more respected in this world, but we are not going to bring feminism into this. If you want to win a womans heart, you have to show her respect. That means that if she says no, it means no. Dont try to change her mind or convince her into doing something else. Women are intelligent creatures, and if they want to do something, they will do it in their own time and in their own way!