3. You have to make an effort, man. If its all about your good looks, no woman is going to buy it (not for too long, anyway). It doesnt mean that you have to spend a lot of money in order to make a woman feel special (but you can do it, seriously, no woman will mind). The important thing is to show that you were thinking about her when you saw that flower, and you decided that she should have it. That one thing can say so much more than buying expensive gifts (again, if you really want to, its definitely okay).