9. Its not so hard to be a gentleman. Hold the door for her and take her bags without asking. It shows that you are there to make things easier for her. And its not so hard, really. Being a gentleman is all about taking care of the woman you love. You have to look after her because if she feels special when she is with you, you will be special to her too. Its not so easy to find a gentleman out there, and even though some people say that chivalry is dead, you should definitely prove them wrong.